Love at First SignFrom £20Singles and dating events
Singles events in your city.
Poise lists singles events and dating events from real hosts, city by city: singles nights, speed dating, socials and parties. Pick a night and get your ticket from the host. No swiping, no chat. You meet people in the room.
Poise in numbers
- people use Poise
- 10k+
- events coming up
- 180
- cities with a night listed
- 26
Counted on 12 October 2026.
Coming up
Coming up in London.
Love at First SignFrom £20
Pitch Your FriendFrom £14.99Pitch Your Friend singles night at St Paul's
Bored of Dating AppsFrom £20Rooftop ski après social, 20s and 30s
Pitch Your FriendFrom £6Gay and bi men's speed dating
True Dating£20Saturday night singles party at The Wren Tavern
Love at First SignFrom £2030s and 40s singles night at Bootlegger Richmond
Three steps
How it works.
- Step 1
Choose your city.
Pick where you live and see what is on, day by day.
- Step 2
Pick a night.
Each listing says who it is for, where it is and what it costs.
- Step 3
Get your ticket from the host.
The button opens the host's own page. You book with them. Then you go.
On the list
What you will find.
Singles nights
A bar and a crowd where everyone is single. Often set by age.
151 nights coming up
Astrology singles nights
Singles nights where the star signs start the conversation.
146 nights coming up
Singles socials
A relaxed room with something to do besides talk.
15 nights coming up
Bookshop singles nights
Meet over the shelves, with a drink in hand.
11 nights coming up
Singles parties
A later night, with music and a dancefloor.
9 nights coming up
Speed dating
A few minutes with each person, then you move on.
2 nights coming up
Cities
Cities with a night listed.
United Kingdom
London19 events coming up and 1 club
Guildford15 events coming up
Glasgow14 events coming up
Edinburgh11 events coming up
Leamington Spa11 events coming up
Southampton11 events coming up
Brighton9 events coming up
Bristol9 events coming up
Bath8 events coming up- Newcastle8 events coming up
Cambridge7 events coming up- Nottingham7 events coming up
- Reading7 events coming up
Birmingham6 events coming up
Winchester6 events coming up- Bournemouth3 events coming up
Cardiff3 events coming up- Sheffield3 events coming up
- Leeds1 event coming up
United States
Netherlands
Australia
Hosts
Hosts on Poise.
Hosts run the nights and sell the tickets. Poise lists them.
Love at First Sign
146 nights coming up
Bath, Birmingham, Glasgow, Guildford and 17 other cities
Bored of Dating Apps
22 nights coming up
New York, London, Toronto, Amsterdam and 4 other cities
Pitch Your Friend
8 nights coming up
London, Cambridge, Brighton and Birmingham
True Dating
4 nights coming up
London
The practice deck
A deck of challenges for talking to strangers.
Most people do not freeze for want of a line. They freeze because saying hello feels like a risk. The deck makes it a small one: one challenge, five minutes, one real person. Then a slightly harder one.
- challenges
- 300+
- tiers
- 7
- minutes each
- 5
- short lessons
- 22
How a challenge goes.
- 1
Say where you are.
Street and park, gym, café and bookshop, bar and party, errands and transit. The deck deals only what fits the place.
- 2
Double tap a card.
A five minute timer starts. Long enough to do it, too short to talk yourself out of it.
- 3
Do it, then mark it done.
Each one counts toward the next tier, and the deck answers with something a little harder.
None of it is needed to go to an event. It is why walking into one gets easier.
Reviews
What people say.
I went from dreading small talk to looking forward to it. A little help is all it took.
Mira K.Used the app for 42 days Three weeks in I went on my first proper date in years. This app pulled me out of my head.
AlomarSubscriber since March
Good to know
Questions.
What is Poise?
Poise is an app that lists singles events and dating events run by independent hosts: singles nights, speed dating, singles socials and parties. You browse what is on in your city, pick a night and book with the host. It is available for iPhone and Android.
How do I find singles events near me?
Look up your city on Poise, in the app or at poisedating.co/events. Poise lists the singles nights, speed dating, socials and parties coming up there, with the venue, the time and the price of each.
Which cities have singles events on Poise?
Poise lists singles events wherever a host has one on. As of 12 October 2026, that includes London, Guildford, Glasgow and Edinburgh. The list changes as hosts add nights, and the current one is at poisedating.co/cities.
How do I book a ticket?
Find the night on Poise and open its listing. The Get tickets button opens the host's own ticket page, where you book and pay under the host's terms. Poise does not sell tickets.
Can I go to a singles event on my own?
Yes. Most people at a singles event come on their own, and the hosts expect it. Every listing on Poise says who the night is for and how the host runs it, so you can pick one that suits you.
How much does Poise cost?
The app is free to download, and browsing events and clubs is free. Tickets are sold by the host at the price on the listing. A subscription is optional and adds the practice deck, the lessons and your progress.
What is the practice deck?
A deck of more than 300 five minute challenges about talking to strangers, in seven tiers. The first tier is one line to one person. The last is asking for a phone number. You say where you are, double tap a card, and a five minute timer starts. The Daily challenge is free. The deck and the lessons are part of the subscription.
Put the apps down. Pick a night. Go.
Poise is on the App Store and Google Play.
